Doc: update documentation about EXCLUDE constraint elements.

What the documentation calls an exclude_element is an index_elem
according to gram.y, and it allows all the same options that
a CREATE INDEX column specification does.  The COLLATE patch
neglected to update the CREATE/ALTER TABLE docs about that,
and later the opclass-parameters patch made the same oversight.
Add those options to the syntax synopses, and polish the
associated text a bit.

Back-patch to v13 where opclass parameters came in.  We could
update v12 with just the COLLATE omission, but it doesn't quite
seem worth the trouble at this point.

Shihao Zhong, reviewed by Daniel Vérité, Shubham Khanna and myself

Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAGRkXqShbVyB8E3gapfdtuwiWTiK=Q67Qb9qwxu=+-w0w46EBA@mail.gmail.com

doc/src/sgml/ref/alter_table.sgml

@@ -143,7 +143,7 @@ WITH ( MODULUS <replaceable class="parameter">numeric_literal</replaceable>, REM
 
 <phrase><replaceable class="parameter">exclude_element</replaceable> in an <literal>EXCLUDE</literal> constraint is:</phrase>
 
-{ <replaceable class="parameter">column_name</replaceable> | ( <replaceable class="parameter">expression</replaceable> ) } [ <replaceable class="parameter">opclass</replaceable> ] [ ASC | DESC ] [ NULLS { FIRST | LAST } ]
+{ <replaceable class="parameter">column_name</replaceable> | ( <replaceable class="parameter">expression</replaceable> ) } [ COLLATE <replaceable class="parameter">collation</replaceable> ] [ <replaceable class="parameter">opclass</replaceable> [ ( <replaceable class="parameter">opclass_parameter</replaceable> = <replaceable class="parameter">value</replaceable> [, ... ] ) ] ] [ ASC | DESC ] [ NULLS { FIRST | LAST } ]
 
 <phrase><replaceable class="parameter">referential_action</replaceable> in a <literal>FOREIGN KEY</literal>/<literal>REFERENCES</literal> constraint is:</phrase>
 

doc/src/sgml/ref/create_table.sgml

@@ -105,7 +105,7 @@ WITH ( MODULUS <replaceable class="parameter">numeric_literal</replaceable>, REM
 
 <phrase><replaceable class="parameter">exclude_element</replaceable> in an <literal>EXCLUDE</literal> constraint is:</phrase>
 
-{ <replaceable class="parameter">column_name</replaceable> | ( <replaceable class="parameter">expression</replaceable> ) } [ <replaceable class="parameter">opclass</replaceable> ] [ ASC | DESC ] [ NULLS { FIRST | LAST } ]
+{ <replaceable class="parameter">column_name</replaceable> | ( <replaceable class="parameter">expression</replaceable> ) } [ COLLATE <replaceable class="parameter">collation</replaceable> ] [ <replaceable class="parameter">opclass</replaceable> [ ( <replaceable class="parameter">opclass_parameter</replaceable> = <replaceable class="parameter">value</replaceable> [, ... ] ) ] ] [ ASC | DESC ] [ NULLS { FIRST | LAST } ]
 
 <phrase><replaceable class="parameter">referential_action</replaceable> in a <literal>FOREIGN KEY</literal>/<literal>REFERENCES</literal> constraint is:</phrase>
 
@@ -1116,6 +1116,7 @@ WITH ( MODULUS <replaceable class="parameter">numeric_literal</replaceable>, REM
       no two rows in the table contain overlapping circles
       (see <xref linkend="datatype-geometric"/>) by using the
       <literal>&amp;&amp;</literal> operator.
+      The operator(s) are required to be commutative.
      </para>
 
      <para>
@@ -1124,11 +1125,10 @@ WITH ( MODULUS <replaceable class="parameter">numeric_literal</replaceable>, REM
       operator must be associated with an appropriate operator class
       (see <xref linkend="indexes-opclass"/>) for the index access
       method <replaceable>index_method</replaceable>.
-      The operators are required to be commutative.
       Each <replaceable class="parameter">exclude_element</replaceable>
-      can optionally specify an operator class and/or ordering options;
+      defines a column of the index, so it can optionally specify a collation,
-      these are described fully under
+      an operator class, operator class parameters, and/or ordering options;
-      <xref linkend="sql-createindex"/>.
+      these are described fully under <xref linkend="sql-createindex"/>.
      </para>
 
      <para>